It was during the phase of expanding the Pan-Africa e-Network platform, created under a project of the Government of India that, in 2011, I landed up in Rwanda, a beautiful country with a cool climate and scenic, hilly terrain. Rwanda, due to its geographic location on the continent, is called Africa’s heart…
Are our minds being hacked?
Are our minds being hacked?
There is widespread dissatisfaction about the service sector. Complaints about bad plumbing, shoddy repairs, incompetence and rudeness of workmen are commonplace. Coaching centres and competitive exams make up the new education model. In hospitals, treatment is structured around packages. Skills are evaporating from work and courtesies, from social life. It is all about doing a job and being paid, buying and selling, zero-sum game, this is what I got, this is what I can give. In a civilization that talked about excellence in skill as a way to reach God – योग: कर्मसुकौशलम् (Shrimad Bhagavad Gita, 2.50), the fall is phenomenal.
When I look back to my childhood, I recollect the respect that people commanded for their skills. Their skills gave them a status. Teachers were guardians. Workmanship was honoured. If the right workmen were not available, work was halted, or even postponed. Even a product like curd had made a shop famous. People were connoisseurs of fine taste. Everyone who was a vendor was addressed by a relation – uncle, brother etc. depending upon his age. The fabric of society was rugged as well as crafted – every yarn was well woven and in a pattern.
Then middlemen started arriving – first in government services, then in business, in finding houses on rent, and finally in the services. Now, when you go to salon for a haircut, an employee attends to you. You don’t even ask his name. Neither is there a personal touch to his services, nor the sharing of experiences as he works. In condominiums, there is a clubhouse where you occasionally meet your neighbours – no one has time for personal exchanges because everyone is either watching TV or online. Food is more ‘ordered’ than ‘cooked’. Supply chains have become so long that you can’t see from where they start. We eat fruits coming from New Zealand and no one sheds a tear when one more guava orchard is cleared to build another suburb.
When I visited China in 2002, my host Ji Ping, who later translated Wings of Fire into Chinese, told me that Beijing is truly a great city. I asked him what makes it so and he shared with me a profound truth. He said, a city is great if these five are accessible by walking – provision store, barber shop, doctor, school and park. Beijing may have a population of 2 crores, but these five services are still available at walking distances. How many of our cities provide this ‘luxury’? UKG-LKG children riding school buses is the new order. There are no more family doctors taking care of fevers and bowel irritation. For everything, there is a specialist. Even Cardiology has multiple super-specialties within itself.
So, instead of coming together, as I was imagining in my first blog post in the new year in a good mood, we are indeed fragmenting ourselves. Joint families have long broken down into nuclear families. Now the model is – individuals living together. Because reality is biting, we are living more in the virtual – a world where there are only ‘likes’, chat rooms which are more of echo chambers, and we hear back only what we say – I am OK? You are OK! I love you! I love you too! We watch only those channels that talk about our political tastes. No one cares about the truth anyway! We go by opinion polls. If a greater number of people talk about something, it must be really good! How do I know? I am not even sure if I can think properly.
Where have we lost track? It is a very serious question which ought to be asked because if not asked and answered now, fixing it later will not be possible.
First, we degraded our poor people. The rich have coolly withdrawn from social welfare. No more charitable colleges, hospitals and hostels have been set up off late. Then crafts were gone. Our darjees our halwais are all replaced by brands. Then we degraded our teachers. This led to the degradation of what was being taught in schools. An education app has become the ubiquitous teacher and the mobile phone – a part of the human soul. Every emotion has become a smiley – you don’t even have to feel fully; just choose one from the list.
The cost of this is going to be enormous. What goes out, returns. Most of us will not be allowed to even die properly. Life will be extended somehow every time you fall sick. What if your life savings go to the hospitals? Every chronic disease will be treated up to 100 years or more, further adding up the treatment of the side effects of the medicines. Our minds seem to be hacked and our bodies are commoditized, and the worse part of it is that we seem to be fine with this.
So, we really need to take a pause. Let us switch off the TV and mobile phones one evening and cook together, sit together and eat together with the entire family, and make everyone speak for 10 minutes – tell a joke, a story, recite a poem, sing a song or narrate an experience. Let us have just one session to know what is going on in the lives of our loved ones.
We came into this world through our parents. They did the best for us in their conditions. We also did what we could to raise our children well. The problem is the increasing loss of control. Our children are losing control over the way they raise their children. Invisible forces are raising herds, folks, zombies, little consumption machines, whose preferences are being defined like ice-cream flavors, so that things are mass-produced and sold online. The education that is being sold to our children will neither help them get jobs, nor make them good citizens, nor even make them smart. The healthcare that is being sold to us is to extend our life somehow so that we remain customers of pharmacy and diagnostic labs and not to make us healthy.
So what can one do? Let us inculcate some basics. Ensure that you sleep for eight hours every day, come what may. There should not be any electronic gadget in your bedroom. Eat only the food for which you can see the starting point of the supply chain. Go for alternative medicine for treating chronic diseases. Live where the five things told by my Chinese friend are available within walking distance. Spend time with your family and meet your friends in person and not through social media. Look more into the mirror on your wall and not into the dark mirror of your computer, TV or mobile phone. Your life is your biggest asset. Your soul is your real identity. Serve your soul and the world around you will change for good.
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