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Living In the Shadows of Our Ancestors
Living In the Shadows of Our Ancestors
Last fortnight was the Pitra Paksha, an annual 15-day period in Hindu tradition observed to honour and pay homage to ancestors. During this period, Hindus perform various rituals such as Tarpan (offering water), Shradh (ceremonial offerings of food), and other acts of devotion to appease the souls of deceased ancestors. It is believed that these rituals help the ancestors attain peace and liberation.
One is thought to have three primary debts: a debt to the gods, a debt to the guru, and an obligation to the forebearers. Repaying these debts with the most extraordinary deference and humility is required. The ruler of death, Yama Raja, permits everyone who passes away from this life to return to earth and collect offerings from their next generations during this time, known as Pitra Paksha. Shradhs appear to result from the Karma hypothesis, which upholds and sustains relationships for all eternity. As King Mahabali journeys to Kerala during the Onam festivities, the shradhs create a bridge between the living and the dead.
Pitra Paksha is a powerful reminder of the belief in the continuity of life. It reflects the importance of honouring one’s lineage and serves as a time for individuals to reflect on their family history and express gratitude towards their ancestors. This belief in the eternal cycle of life and death can bring a sense of reassurance and comfort. The Chinese, Japanese, and certain other Asian people show gratitude and reverence for their ancestors similarly. This time, I invited five competent priests and performed the ceremony. Through them, I worshipped my paternal and maternal bloodlines, ancestors, all the gods, and Shri Vishnu’s footmark in Gaya. It was a genuinely satisfying experience.
Our ancestors ‘live on’ within us through DNA, which is not merely an idea but a fact. Each person inherits genetic material from their parents, which contains DNA passed down through generations. This genetic information influences everybody, including physical traits, predispositions to specific health conditions, and even some behavioural tendencies. In this sense, every person carries a part of their ancestors’ biological legacy within their cells.
Emerging science in epigenetics suggests that environmental factors can influence gene expression and potentially be passed down through generations. This adds another layer to understanding how ancestors may impact their descendants. Understanding our genetic connection to our ancestors can foster a sense of belonging and identity. It reminds individuals of their heritage and the contributions of those who came before them, reinforcing that our lives are intertwined with those of our forebearers.
Anatomically modern humans (Homo sapiens) are believed to have emerged around 300,000 years ago. An average generation length of 30 years would suggest that approximately 10,000 generations of humans have existed. Each of these generations has played a role in shaping human experience, culture, and evolution.
As humanity spread across the planet, diverse cultures and histories emerged. Each group may have its generational perspective shaped by local customs, challenges, and adaptations.
People have always wandered the planet, and many have migrated from their home country to a new one in the last few centuries. They have experienced the transition, often facing challenges such as language barriers, cultural differences, and adapting to new social systems.
The children of migrants usually grow up with a blend of their parents and the host country’s culture. They often face unique challenges, including navigating their identity between two cultures. The grandchildren of the original migrants are typically even more integrated into the host society. However, while younger generations may adopt the societal norms of the host country, they may still engage with their ancestral culture through family traditions, festivals, and community gatherings.
We live in the ‘millennial’ or ‘digital’ generation, with newer generations emerging as societal norms and technologies evolve. Millennials have grown up during a time of increasing globalisation. They have greater access to information, cultures, and ideas worldwide than previous generations, primarily due to the internet and social media. With the rise of digital technology, millennials are more likely to engage with and embrace diverse cultures. Exposure to international music, films, cuisine, and art is more prevalent, fostering a global perspective.
Many millennials prioritise building diverse social networks. They often connect with people from various backgrounds, ethnicities, and cultures, leading to a more cosmopolitan social experience. Millennials support values promoting inclusivity, diversity, and social justice. This mindset often stems from a cosmopolitan view emphasising the importance of understanding and respecting global issues.
Despite these trends, it is important to note that not all millennials are cosmopolitan. Geographic location, socio-economic status, personal preferences, and individual experiences can shape one’s worldview. Some millennials may have less exposure to global cultures due to economic, social, or geographical constraints. Children of migrated populations often face significant challenges, such as poverty, unemployment, and lack of access to education and social services. They are vulnerable to radicalisation, leading to participation in violent extremist groups.
Many people turn to their ancestry to anchor their sense of self in a globalised world where identity can feel fragmented. Understanding where one comes from can help individuals navigate questions of identity, particularly in multicultural contexts. The history of one’s ancestors often reflects broader societal changes, such as migration, war, social movements, and technological advances. Understanding this history allows individuals to reflect on the progress and issues in society today.
So, what do ancestors mean to a modern man? Modern individuals may find value in tracing their genealogy, learning about the lives and struggles of their forebearers, and recognising the legacies they have inherited, which can influence their sense of self. Honouring one’s ancestors through rituals and practices can provide comfort, foster a connection to something larger than oneself, and receive support from those who came before.
Without a doubt, we feel a solid connection to our ancestral roots, whether through cultural traditions, values, or beliefs. This connection shapes personal identity, influencing how individuals perceive themselves and interact with the world. The world is complex, and life is only sometimes a pleasant journey. Living in the shadow gives a sense of higher order protection like a tree, continuing influence and setting expectations based on ancestral history. By acknowledging the impact of ancestors, individuals can actively embrace, modify, or break free from specific patterns or practices to align more closely with their values and aspirations. Engaging with this ancestral connection can enrich modern life, fostering a sense of continuity, resilience, and belonging.
I performed the Shradh ritual this year, having ignored it earlier. Undoubtedly, the moment you call out the names of your ancestors – from the bloodlines of your father and mother, you have goosebumps. The rest of the ceremony may be semantics, but the connection of every living one with oneself is real and phenomenal and cannot be ignored. If we count back to four grandparents, their eight parents, then their sixteen parents, and so on, for me to be born, 12 earlier generations, 4094 ancestors were involved. How many struggles, victories, and defeats they would have lived through so that I am living today? I can always pretend to be ignorant, but could I ever be without them?
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